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deborah531   in reply to butterfly22   on

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Hi, I am a single mother of a disabled child, age 3. We currently are residing in another state for medical treatment. I am unable to work at this time because I have to tend to my child’s medical needs. Before this I had a career and worked on Wall Street in NYC. I was able to purchase a home for myself and child, now his dad is residing there while we are out of state at a Ronald McDonald House. The day before my sons surgery I found out I was expecting another child. His dad and I were trying to have another child but our relationship suddenly went sour, he could not cope with our child’s disability. He has treated us so poorly at this time of need. Taking trips to Florida and Atlantic City for the weekends, running around to race tracks and swinger clubs, all this at age 41. On an occasion when I have come home for the weekend with my son, my home has looked like a dump yard, garbage, empty pizza boxes, dirty clothes everywhere. So awful to deal with, it is hard alone taking care of my child and then having to come home to this. My house is up for sale in hopes of selling it before I go further in to debt. That is why I asked him to leave because he has since broke a screen in the window because he locked himself out and removed the lock of my backdoor because the neighbor who feeds our cat locks the house door, because he always leaves it open, he has keys, but is lazy. I am afraid nobody will want to buy the house when they see it in the condition he keeps it. I have not gone home and have asked him to leave. He is a self made millionaire but refuses to continue to pay any of the household bills because I have asked him to leave. He is a builder and has property but he sells it for profit and lives at my house. Now I am pregnant again, tending to my child’s medical needs and can not work to pay my mortgage. I have excellent credit and am afraid of losing all I have earned for my years of working. Is there any advice? What can I do? Please respond ASAP. Regards.

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